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We’re navigating lesbian pregnancy, military life, and creative chaos — all with a camera in one hand and a boarding pass in the other.

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We’re two passionate ladies, navigating swollen ankles, shipping crates, and overseas military orders — all while counting down to our October baby. Between belly kicks and base checklists, we’re documenting what it looks like to build a home, a family, and a future while everything is in motion. If you like honest stories, a little chaos, and a lot of heart — you’re in the right place.


We’re two passionate ladies, navigating swollen ankles, shipping crates, and overseas military orders — all while counting down to our October baby. Between belly kicks and base checklists, we’re documenting what it looks like to build a home, a family, and a future while everything is in motion. If you like honest stories, a little chaos, and a lot of heart — you’re in the right place.

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Military Life

Explore insightful tips and advice for military families on their unique journey.

Photography Journey

Check out what Sarah's been working on since leaving stateside.

Queer Parenthood

We don't know what we're doing, but we're having fun learning.

All things Japan

From moving boxes to bento boxes - join us on our journey across the globe.

Helpful Resources

Let’s be honest — this whole process is overwhelming, chaotic, and full of conflicting advice. Which part, you ask? All of it. PCSing, becoming parents, even the journey to getting pregnant in the first place. Everyone has their own take, and none of it comes with a manual - here's information I've found helpful.

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Military Guides

Explore comprehensive guides and resources on military life, deployments, PCSing, and adapting to new environments.

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Parenting Blogs

Discover a collection of insightful and relatable parenting blogs covering topics from pregnancy to raising children.

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Queer Community

Connect with a supportive and inclusive community of queer individuals and families sharing their stories and experiences.

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